What does it mean sadistic? Is it disorder? What is sexual sadistic disorder?
To understand the sadistic, first know about who is sadism. Sadism is the person who enjoys and find excitement by inflicting the pain, suffering, torture and humiliation to another person. The pain, humiliation and suffering are totally real, it does not imagined. Sadism person can inflicting pain and bad behaviour to another person in physical way or in psychological way. So, sadistic is deriving pleasure from inflicting pain on others.
Do you know the sadist meaning? Sadism person is also called as sadist and sado. It is opposite of masochism. When the sadistic is done in the sexual purpose, it is sexual sadism. People find sexual gratification to dominate their partner verbally or physically.
Sexual sadism is form of paraphilia. People use such act in their S & M play with sm sex toy just to enhance the BDSM play. Most of people do not have sexual sadism disorder. Some amount of sadism play is not considered in the sexual sadistic disorder, if it is consent of mutual. Enact the fantasies is not a disorder.
In contract, sexual sadistic disorder can consider, if people follow this-
When people take bondage act or humiliation act, to the extreme. Sometime it causes harm to the body, serious inquiries and even death.
People force their partner and involve them in the act without mutual consent.
Can sadist love?
Of course, they can. Sadist partner love their partner and being sadist is way of showing their love to them. But, not all. Two sadists are never being exactly alike. Most of people like to be sadist and try different bondage toys like blindfolds, spankers, handcuffs, chastity belt, mouth gag, etc to be kinky in the bedroom and find partner. Where some believe that it is not pathological nor some addiction and it certainly isn’t damaged sexuality. It is different way of human perspective.
Sadist is not the cruelty. If a partner get ready to receive the pain and humiliation in the relationship, that means it is heavy relationship and have a strong trust on each other. The one who try said with their partner, have stronger bond with their partner as compare to the non sadistic peoples.
What sadists actually do in the SM play?
Being sadist is not easy in the SM play. Sadist partner has to be careful with their words and acting. Sadist partner have to follow the BDSM rule that is Safe, Sane, Consensual. Every action is done by sadist partner is super analyze whether the things can be verbal or physical.
Sadist has to lot of things to do in the SM play. Well, SM is all about the imagination. The sadism partner’s imagination leads to a successful SM play. Sadism can use different types of acts and toys to inflict the pain and humiliation. Toys like be spankers&ticklers, flog, rope bondage, etc.
Do you according to the some survey conduct between the sadism and masochism about what act they like the most in SM play. Survey reported that about 17% of peoples liked to spanking, 12% like to bondage, 11% like to eliminate the partner’s sight by blindfolds, 11% like to biting, 11% like to handcuffs sex, and at least 8% of like to verbal humiliation.
Sadism also does and can do such things with their partner’s permission. It is the masochism who suffers in the act.